Remember when you were a child and found out that life had an ending? You discovered that someone you loved would no longer be a part of your life anymore. You didn’t understand why it happened, and the rawness that ensued when you were separated forevermore from that person?
Here you are today trying to process information that your mind has difficulty absorbing. Someone you love has an interest in something other than what you have to give. They are caught up in internet pornography. You feel disconnected from the one you love, the one that promised to cherish you forever the day you were married. How do you process this new alien information? After all, this is not the way you envisioned life was going to be. You thought that you and you alone would be enough to keep them by your side. Now you begin to doubt your own self, falsely condemning yourself for not being physically attractive or being able to take care of your spouses needs. You feel like you’ve been used, the fruits of your life being taken without real meaningful connection with your spouse.
It has nothing to do with you being less valuable. It has everything to do with your spouse not placing a value on God.
Separation from Christ produces people capable of all sorts of heinous perversions. It’s no stretch to believe it can snare the person you love away from you in a moments notice. Experts believe that someone can become addicted to internet pornography in just 3 clicks of a mouse. With the millions upon millions of web sites dedicated to this very subject, unless we are connected with Christ, we don’t stand a chance. We will lose every time.
The most important thing now for you and your spouse is to rediscover (or to discover for the first time) the love of Christ for you. He wants you to be connected in “oneness” with your spouse. The resources of this website is designed to help you to examine why you hurt so much, and what needs to be done to fill that dark cold void in the pit of your chest into a warm vibrant love that God has in store for your life. With Christ in both of your lives, you will be reconnected in a way that you never thought possible. We have witnessed it again and again the unbelievable power of Christ to rid our lives of darkness, and replace it with peace and contentment. If you already believe in God’s purpose for you, then that is half the battle. The other half rests in your spouse’s recognition in the same. Use this site to explore the ways that this can be accomplished.